So we've all done things that made us question... "what the hell was I thinking?" yup! While it can be fun to drink and be a bit outside of yourself and less inhibited, it is super important to look at your little bad habits.
One thing I've been thinking about recently are my dating habits and patterns. In recent past I have gone out with a few guys who were so not my type. I think given the town I live in and our very limited selection of available men, my standards dropped a bit... as a result of 1) boredom and 2) drinking. Yess drinking. I know it sounds like a cop out, an excuse of sorts. But I'm owning it.
Ladies, believe it or not dating and drinking are quite relative. If you find yourself doing any of the following things consider limiting yourself to one drink or none at all. Trust me you will thank yourself!
- do you drink before a date?
- do you feel more confident and sensual when you're drinking?
- does drinking make you more attracted to men you wouldn't normally be into? (I think this one is key)
Now don't beat yourself up over it, we all go out with random guys at some point. Just learn from your mistakes and remember to raise the standard as often as you like or feel necessary! And strive for a real connection, isn't that what we all want?!
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